This is an excerpt from John Inazu’s substack, *Some Assembly Required. Read the full essay here.
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I tell my law students to lose most of their adverbs. It’s generally good to avoid overextended emotion and overclaiming. The other side isn’t always wrong. Few people are absolutely mistaken. You don’t have to really care; just care.
As we inch closer toward what is sure to be a divisive and contested election, each of us might consider our own adverb inventory, especially on social media. You will seldom win an argument by making your point more forcefully, more angrily, and with less nuance. Fewer adverbs might also lower your blood pressure.
Politics at its best—or at least at its most functional—requires similar moderation. Politics depends on compromise.
No side has all the answers, extreme policy positions rarely win, elections are seldom about good versus evil. And every time we type away to the contrary—we’re right, they’re wrong; we’re good they’re evil; we’re smart; they’re stupid—we undermine the moderated discourse on which our civil peace depends.
None of this means the stakes don’t matter—of course they do. This coming presidential election—like every one that has preceded it—will have enormous consequences and its outcome will affect people’s lives and liberties in ways that matter. You should care. Be involved, make your arguments known, and vote.
But as you do, aim for nuance and moderation in your claims. The way we engage with each other—particularly in political discourse—shapes the fabric of our democracy. In an age of polarization, where every issue seems to divide us into opposing camps, it is more important than ever to remember that our words can either contribute to the unraveling of our social fabric, or they can help to restore it one conversation at a time.
Too often, pleas for “civil discourse” come from people in power trying to maintain the status quo by suppressing passion and emotion. You don’t have to play into that game. But it’s possible to express both passion and moderation at the same time.